DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been in a “situationship” for ten years. But now my man is engaged to someone else and I’m wondering if he ever had real feelings for me.
I’m 31 and he’s 32. We met at university and hit it off straight away.
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I’m 31 and he’s 32. We met at university and hit it off straight away.
It wasn’t just the sex – we’d chat for hours on end though he never wanted to put a label on it.
I convinced myself that we were a couple in all but name. I can’t believe I was so stupid to think he loved me for all those years.
Three months ago, he suddenly became distant.
He didn’t want to meet any more and seemed to be avoiding me.
Then last week I saw on social media that he is engaged.
So it turns out he did want a long-term relationship – just not with me.
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I feel like such a deluded fool. Was it all a lie?
I’ve wasted the best years of my life on him.
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