I saved myself for marriage, but now I can't last longer than five minutes

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M newly married but am rubbish in bed and it’s because of pornography. I’m hooked on it.

I’ve read that watching porn can affect you in the bedroom and now my addiction is ruining my life.

I was from a culture where sex before marriage was frowned upon. I’m a man of 26 and my new wife is 23.

We’ve had sex three times now but it is over within minutes and she doesn’t have time to enjoy it.

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I’m scared I’ll lose her. I don’t watch porn any more as I’m too worried.

DEIDRE SAYS: Watching too much pornography can blunt the appetite for normal sex because you become accustomed to your own touch.

Focusing on your new bride will help you to truly get a connection together.

Most women don’t get their thrills from intercourse alone but need extra stimulation to reach orgasm, so focus on foreplay.

My support packs Thrilling A Woman In Bed and Want To Last Longer? will help you.

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