My husband won't take Viagra & I can’t take much more of our sexless marriage

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M living in a sexless marriage and I can’t take much more.

I love my husband but I’m desperate.


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I’m a 39-year-old woman. My husband is 45 and he has health issues which mean he has problems getting an erection.

I’ve bought him Viagra pills and he’ll say he’s going to take one but it never happens.

He tells me I’m beautiful and he loves me but how can I believe him if he doesn’t want to actually have sex with me?

DEIDRE SAYS: It does sound like he loves you, but he may hate the idea of having to rely on a pill for an erection. And it’s important to understand that medication can help sustain a response to simulation but won’t create desire. So kiss and cuddle and touch him, work on building his arousal so then he sees the point in taking the pill.

My e-leaflet on Solving Erection Problems explains the different types of medication available too. Viagra is the best known but doesn’t always suit everyone best.

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