DEAR DEIDRE: MY love cheat brother-in-law boasted he had slept with a prostitute, and I think I should tell my sister.
I’m a man of 41, a year older than her, and we have always been close. She has been married for 15 years.
We each have two kids and our families have spent a lot of time together, and I regarded my brother-in-law, who is 45, as a good friend.
In pre-Covid times we spent many a night in our local pub.
He has always been a flirt, and one night I saw him kissing a girl. He blamed it on the beer, so I laughed it off.
But last time I saw him, he told me that on a work trip abroad he had slept with a prostitute.
He had no shame. This sickened me and we had a row about it.
My sister thinks they have the perfect marriage and I hate seeing her taken for a fool.
Should I tell her? Or say nothing, knowing he’s going to carry on cheating?
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DEIDRE SAYS: If this comes out, the consequences could be devastating. Tell him you want no part of his cheating.
If he can’t stop, and if their relationship isn’t working, then he needs to work on that with his wife.
Remind him he has two children to think about.
Think very hard about telling your sister. Any marital discussions ought to come from her husband, not you.
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