{"id":68192,"date":"2023-09-23T18:05:24","date_gmt":"2023-09-23T18:05:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/likecelebwn.com\/?p=68192"},"modified":"2023-09-23T18:05:24","modified_gmt":"2023-09-23T18:05:24","slug":"my-fiancee-is-getting-fed-up-because-i-cant-last-long-during-sex-it-didnt-used-to-be-this-way-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/likecelebwn.com\/lifestyle\/my-fiancee-is-getting-fed-up-because-i-cant-last-long-during-sex-it-didnt-used-to-be-this-way-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My fiancee is getting fed up because I can't last long during sex – it didn't used to be this way | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN\u2019T last long in bed and my fianc\u00e9e is losing respect for me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m 44 and she is 42. We got together in our early twenties so we have weathered many storms as a couple.<\/p>\n

Last year I got made redundant but my fianc\u00e9e stood by me, despite this putting more pressure on her to carry us financially.<\/p>\n

My confidence has taken a huge knock because ten months on, I\u2019m still looking for a new job.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s beginning to have a bad effect on our sex life and I\u2019m really starting to feel her frustration towards me \u2013 because I lack staying power.<\/p>\n

Over the past year I\u2019ve found it increasingly difficult to last longer than five minutes in bed.<\/p>\n

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I never used to be like this, I was able to hold out much longer.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not sure what has changed but I need to fix it before she decides enough is enough and then walks out on me.<\/p>\n

We used to cuddle after sex but now she tells me to get off immediately and starts to sulk around the house. <\/p>\n

When I ask her what\u2019s wrong, she tells me that I only think of myself.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s not true. I want to leave her satisfied but as soon as we get into it, I lose all control.<\/p>\n

I know she\u2019s losing respect for me because she\u2019s even started calling me names. <\/p>\n

Whenever I mention the wedding plans, she says she\u2019s not feeling up to it.<\/p>\n

How can I turn back the clock and perform like I used to be able to?<\/p>\n

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